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The Cost of Being Looked At
A reflection on beauty, power, and the fear of fading Photographer: Rain Kessler Photography Beauty is a Currency—Whether We Want It to...
Cat Ferris
1 hour ago5 min read
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Finding My Rhythm: What Ecstatic Dance Taught Me About Freedom
For years, I’ve incorporated ecstatic dance into my sacred sexuality practice. Movement has always felt like a gateway to something...
Cat Ferris
Mar 253 min read
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Ask The Sex Coach: How to Handle Judgment for Being Polyamorous
(And Whether Coming Out is Right For You) This week’s question was submitted through Instagram: “How do you deal with the potential...
Cat Ferris
Mar 203 min read
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Ask the Sex Coach: How Can I Explore Kink with Responsive Desire and High Brakes?
I recently launched my "Ask the Sex Coach" Â series on Instagram, where I answer your real, unfiltered questions about intimacy,...
Cat Ferris
Mar 134 min read
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Why Empathy Is Harder in Relationships (And How to Cultivate It Anyway)
Empathy is one of those beautiful, aspirational qualities we all strive for—until we actually need to practice it with the person we love...
Cat Ferris
Mar 24 min read
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Introducing the Igniting Intimacy Package: A New Way to Deepen Your Connection
One of the most common challenges I see in my work as an intimacy coach is couples struggling to bridge the gap between individual growth...
Cat Ferris
Feb 272 min read
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Beyond the Binary: My Polyamorous Dating Journey
Dating as a married woman comes with its own set of challenges. Add polyamory into the mix, and things get even more interesting. My...
Cat Ferris
Feb 163 min read
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What’s Your Sexual Archetype? Find Out Where You’d Sit in the Cafeteria
Ah, the high school cafeteria. A buzzing ecosystem where each table had its own vibe, rules, and energy . The jocks, the artists, the...
Cat Ferris
Jan 192 min read
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What's the Difference Between Sex Therapy and Sex Coaching?
When you’re looking to grow personally or deepen intimacy in your relationships, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start. Many...
Cat Ferris
Dec 15, 20243 min read
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Have You Ever Made Love to a Ghost?
The Future of Sensation: Exploring New Dimensions of Pleasure I just had one of the most surreal sexual experiences of my life at the...
Cat Ferris
Oct 30, 20242 min read
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The Gong Fu Tea Ceremony: A Dance of Sensuality and Ritual
Lately, I’ve found myself captivated by the beauty of the Gong Fu tea ceremony. I’ll admit, I’m far from a tea connoisseur—my daily tea...
Cat Ferris
Oct 13, 20243 min read
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The Beauty and Discomfort of Shibari
In this exploration of vulnerability, trust, and self-awareness, shibari is a reminder that intimacy, like art, isn’t always easy. But...
Cat Ferris
Oct 1, 20244 min read
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Unveiling Tantra: A Journey Through Spiritual, Sensual, and Sacred Spaces
Tantra. Just the word itself evokes curiosity, and often, a sense of mystery. Yet, when people talk about Tantra, they're usually...
Cat Ferris
Sep 6, 20244 min read
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The Weight of Sexual Expectations
David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...
Cat Ferris
Jul 28, 20243 min read
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The Path to Sexual Fulfillment
Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...
Cat Ferris
Jul 21, 20243 min read
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Building Thriving Relationships
Our happiness in life is largely dependent on the relationships we have. However, society often sends the message that simply loving...
Cat Ferris
Jul 6, 20242 min read
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Embracing Your Sexuality
As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...
Cat Ferris
Jun 30, 20242 min read
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The Power of Embodiment
In our fast-paced, hyper-connected world, it’s easy to lose touch with the connections that truly matter: the connections to ourselves,...
Cat Ferris
Jun 23, 20243 min read
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The Modesty Paradox
Last week, I decided to treat myself to a new dress that I found on Amazon. When it arrived and I tried it on, I was disheartened to see...
Cat Ferris
Jun 16, 20243 min read
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Why We MUST Speak Up About Sex
As a coach, mother, lover, friend, and woman, I have seen the incredible impact of having open and honest discussions about sex. It's...
Cat Ferris
Jun 9, 20243 min read
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