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Cat Ferris
3 days ago2 min read
What’s Your Sexual Archetype? Find Out Where You’d Sit in the Cafeteria
Ah, the high school cafeteria. A buzzing ecosystem where each table had its own vibe, rules, and energy . The jocks, the artists, the...
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Cat Ferris
Dec 15, 20243 min read
What's the Difference Between Sex Therapy and Sex Coaching?
When you’re looking to grow personally or deepen intimacy in your relationships, it can feel overwhelming to know where to start. Many...
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Cat Ferris
Oct 30, 20242 min read
Have You Ever Made Love to a Ghost?
The Future of Sensation: Exploring New Dimensions of Pleasure I just had one of the most surreal sexual experiences of my life at the...
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Cat Ferris
Oct 13, 20243 min read
The Gong Fu Tea Ceremony: A Dance of Sensuality and Ritual
Lately, I’ve found myself captivated by the beauty of the Gong Fu tea ceremony. I’ll admit, I’m far from a tea connoisseur—my daily tea...
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Cat Ferris
Oct 1, 20244 min read
The Beauty and Discomfort of Shibari
In this exploration of vulnerability, trust, and self-awareness, shibari is a reminder that intimacy, like art, isn’t always easy. But...
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Cat Ferris
Sep 6, 20244 min read
Unveiling Tantra: A Journey Through Spiritual, Sensual, and Sacred Spaces
Tantra. Just the word itself evokes curiosity, and often, a sense of mystery. Yet, when people talk about Tantra, they're usually...
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Cat Ferris
Jul 28, 20243 min read
The Weight of Sexual Expectations
David* and I had been friends for years, but the timing was never right for us to explore a romantic relationship. There was always a...
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Cat Ferris
Jul 21, 20243 min read
The Path to Sexual Fulfillment
Note: This article is adapted from the book "Coming Together" by sexologists (and my mentors) Danielle Harel, Ph.D and Celeste...
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Cat Ferris
Jul 6, 20242 min read
Building Thriving Relationships
Our happiness in life is largely dependent on the relationships we have. However, society often sends the message that simply loving...
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Cat Ferris
Jun 30, 20242 min read
Embracing Your Sexuality
As a board-certified sexologist, many of my clients seek help resolving specific challenges in their sex lives, such as low desire,...
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Cat Ferris
Jun 23, 20243 min read
The Power of Embodiment
In our fast-paced, hyper-connected world, it’s easy to lose touch with the connections that truly matter: the connections to ourselves,...
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Cat Ferris
Jun 16, 20243 min read
The Modesty Paradox
Last week, I decided to treat myself to a new dress that I found on Amazon. When it arrived and I tried it on, I was disheartened to see...
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Cat Ferris
Jun 9, 20243 min read
Why We MUST Speak Up About Sex
As a coach, mother, lover, friend, and woman, I have seen the incredible impact of having open and honest discussions about sex. It's...
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Cat Ferris
Jun 4, 20241 min read
The Art of Erotic Touch
Are you looking for a unique date night experience? Transform your date night into a sensual and intimate experience with "The Art of...
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Cat Ferris
Jun 2, 20243 min read
Exploring Darker Desires
Content Warning: this essay mentions sensitive topics including incest, age play, and rape. "The erotic mind is not rational, nor is it...
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Cat Ferris
May 26, 20243 min read
Embracing the Evolution of Desire: A Personal Reflection on Casual Sex and Intimacy
In a world where our emotional and physical needs are often compartmentalized, casual sex stands out as a testament to the complexity of...
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Cat Ferris
May 19, 20243 min read
Savoring Pleasure: The Path to Loving Your Body
Think back to the most delicious thing you've eaten recently. For me, it was a slice of coconut key lime pie. As I lifted my fork, the...
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Cat Ferris
Jan 23, 20243 min read
Grief and Desire
In the world of somatic therapy, we understand that emotions are not confined to the mind; they are physical, embodied experiences. The...
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Cat Ferris
Jan 10, 20242 min read
Casual Sex 101: How to NOT be a F*ckboy
In a world where relationships come in all shapes and sizes, it's crucial to recognize that casual sexual relationships are a valid and...
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Cat Ferris
Jan 4, 20242 min read
Flirting Freely in 2024: Embracing Your Sexy Vibes
Or as my polycule puts it, "Cheers to being a ho in Twenty-Twenty Fo" As a somatic intimacy coach, I often encourage my clients to engage...
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